Some topics men should avoid on a first date, if they expect
to ever get a second date.
1. Do you have any mental, financial, legal, or divorce problems?
If you do, keep them to yourself. Don’t share such personal
problems one a first date.
2. Don’t talk about your bad luck dating women. A real
turn off for your present companion would be to make a statement
such as, “All the women I date turn out to be bitches.”
3. Don’t discuss previous relationships and especially
don’t express bitterness towards relationships that didn’t
4. Don’t jump the gun and start talking about future dates
together. The purpose of the first date is to get to know each
other, not to plan a future together. If you start talking about
doing things together so soon, she’s going to feel pressured
and perhaps intimidated.
Many men assume that just because a woman agreed to go on a
first date, it will lead to a quick relationship. Take things
and don’t rush her into a relationship. Establish a strong
friendship first and romance will follow.
Editor’s note: Don Diebel’s article is copyright
(c) 2005. Deibel bills himself as America’s No.1 Singles
Expert. For more free dating tips on how to successfully meet,
date, attract, and become intimate with women, visit his Web
site at: http://www.getgirls.com.